The Geniuneness that allows Love to flow starts at the spring of the mystery of God accepted by Faith. This is why “without Faith it is impossible to please God.” This is not a Faith solely rooted in the afterlife, this Faith is in Life Here and Now.
“But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.” – Luke 6:35-36
The reason most Christians cannot love unconditionally is they don’t fully believe they have are unconditionally Loved. I know because I used to warm a church pew and I still struggle with this at times But growing up on that church pew loving my enemy was a fantasy. If someone didn’t warm the pew next to us they were the enemy and yes that included those wicked people down the street that danced and had a rock band play in services.
The common theme and understanding to the Mystery of God is this:
Let go of Everything you believe about God except the knowledge that “GOD IS LOVE” and that His Love for us is Divine and therefore beyond our ability to Ever go beyond or be separated from. He Has Completely Forgiven All who ask, the law ends in Christ and He Is In Complete Control of ALL things!