I find that there is Great spiritual health in keeping this sign taped to my bathroom mirror, or some place where I am sure to see it – especially in moments of pain:

“All pain in your life has purpose my child – just ask Me and when you are ready to hear I will tell you and until then and Always I will hold you to my chest, rock you back and forth like the precious child of mine you are and give you perfect Rest, so just Trust me that I am crazy in Love with you with a Love beyond your imagination just as you are and that Love will Never change –
Your Father, Abba”